Hop Against Homophobia: Talking the talk — don’t just walk it

My daughter is bi. She waited a long, loooooooooooooooong time to come out to us, an absurdly long time. She genuinely thought I didn’t know and was anxious about what I, of all people, might say, LOL. Yeah, you read that right. Me. She was floored by how anti-climactic coming out to us was. I could’ve told her that I knew she was bi since she was 8 and said she wanted to marry nSync AND Britney Spears. If that wasn’t a big enough clue, I might’ve figured a few things out by the time she campaigned her high school to allow s/s couple tickets for Homecoming and Prom — and then took her first girlfriend (who I wasn’t supposed to acknowledge as her girlfriend since I wasn’t supposed to know my daughter was bi yet) as a s/s couple to the dance. So yeah, not exactly a shocker. I knew, but I never pushed. I thought my daughter knew how I felt, what I believed (I’ve never suffered from a lack of shut up about my beliefs), and she would come to us when she was comfortable, in her own time.

She’d worked herself into quite the state once she finally decided it was time to fess up, though. Of course, it didn’t matter to us. The only thing I care about and have ever cared about is that my kids are loved, respected and cherished by who they fall in love with. Race, gender, age, religion, where they are from or how much money they make is irrelevant. Frankly, I’d have bigger problems with political affiliation than anything else, but I might even possibly be persuaded to accept That Ultimate Evil as long as the tragically misguided soul treated my daughter like the Princess she is.

A lot of kids don’t have that.

My daughter’s first girlfriend risked being tossed out on her ear by her family if they found out. Not exaggerating.

My daughter’s second girlfriend wasn’t out to her parents, either. Her parents were supporting her through college and she couldn’t gamble on losing that.

It kills me that any child or young adult would feel compelled to hide who they are inside to the people who love them (or should love them) most and if you think it doesn’t slay me that my own kid was too afraid to tell me what was in her heart — for years — you would be wrong. I supported my daughter’s fight for s/s couple ticketing for school dances, but that was just a fight I knew about. What about the struggles I didn’t? The sneers at school. The hateful remarks. The bullying. My daughter didn’t feel she could come to me with that. She suffered through it without her parents to lean on. Both of her ex-girlfriends still do.

That’s why I support the Trevor Project. LGBTQ kids and young adults can call when they need that shoulder to lean on. 200,000+ cries for help have been answered. TWO HUNDRED THOUSAND. Please consider donating to the Trevor Project, which has the only 24/7 LGBTQ crisis intervention and suicide prevention program nation-wide. And please, talk to your kids. No, I mean it. TALK to them. In the end, my daughter waited years to tell us because she was afraid what people at church might think might be more important to us than she was. She was wrong, but it’s my fault she felt that way. I’m the Mom. It’s my duty and my privilege to make sure my kids know they are way more important to me than any church, any job, any anything. I failed at that.

Don’t fail at it too. Learn from my mistakes. Don’t assume they know. Make sure they do. Talk to your kids.

Today, I’m giving away a copy of my Riptide short story, Foreshock, randomly selected from comments below until 9:00 p.m. EST on May 20th. All of my royalties from Foreshock are being donated to the Trevor Project, but I’ll also add an extra $50 to this month’s donation, in honor of my daughter. From a humbled but grateful parent.

If YOU need help…

You are not alone. You are important and you are perfect exactly the way you are.

Click on the Hop Against Homophobia badge below to be taken the blog hop’s home page to visit 200+ other LGBTQ rom authors, reviewers and publishers who are taking a stand against homophobia to support the LGBTQ community for the International Day Against Homophobia and Transphobia, May 17th.

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#Plunder — coming August 14th at Loose Id \o/

Yup, finally making the announcement. The Spoils of War sequel, Plunder, has been contracted with Loose Id and is set to release August 14th. YAY!!!!

Let’s celebrate with a wee (UNedited) peak, shall we?

I’d forgotten so much. Memories of Eli flirted in the jagged crevices of my mind. I didn’t remember my homeland or my family. If I slowed down and concentrated, I could speak Alekian again and pronounce what little I knew aright — when I tried. My master encouraged me, every moment, with each heartbeat, to remember, to trust, to take back what Herra had stolen from me. Sometimes, I wanted that too.

But I wasn’t done forgetting.

No, not nearly.

Because when my master’s long fingers wrapped around my shaft and his hand began to pump, I forgot how to breathe.

How about a bit more fun? Leave a comment below to be entered into a drawing for a FREE pdf of the first book, Spoils of War, by a week from today, Saturday, May 19th — let’s call it at 9:00 p.m. EST. Already got Spoils? WOOT! Share in my giddy by leaving a comment anyway. This one has been a long, loooooooooooooong time coming. If you win the drawing & already have Spoils, I’m sure if we put our heads together, we can drum up a fab alternate prezzie for ya. :D

So comment away for a shot at goodies…And if any of y’all can tell me WTH I did with Plunder‘s blurb, that would be immensely helpful, by the by. ;-)

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Readers — RWA’s Rainbow Chapter wants YOU…

…for a brief survey.

LOL!

We want to know what you like reading, where you’re buying books and lots of other fun stuff to help us move forward with plans to give YOU, our readers, what YOU want — the best story possible! If you wouldn’t mind giving us a spare minute, just click on the nifty badge above to go directly to the survey page or you can just click here.

THANK YOU!!!

:D   :D   :D   :D   :D

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World Building with Thorny

Hi,guys!

I’m at Thorny, Not Prickly today talking about World Building: Paint Me a Picture. Thorny’s a sweetheart, a new writer we can expect great stories from, and beta’d a bit of the zombies for me. If you don’t follow his blog, you’re nuts. ;-) Stop by and let me know what you think about the distinction between story world & setting!

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Why I am a member of RWA — RWA steps up!

The hot sheet for the Romance Writers of America March board meeting reads (in part) as follows:

4. The Board approved adding anti-discrimination language to the Policies and Procedures Manual as follows: Membership shall not be denied to adults because of race, color, gender, age, religion, national origin, marital status, sexual preference, disability, or political affiliation.

5. The Board urges our chapters to make every effort to ensure that their contests and other services are inclusive. While RWA chapters are affiliated as individual corporations, and RWA Staff and Board are not involved in overseeing chapter contests and other programs, both Staff and Board are available to support and advise chapters on best practices.

(Bold emphasis mine)

I am positively giddy and so proud to be a member of RWA I could burst. This is a significant step in the right direction. The Board responded — quickly too! The positive statement and action by RWA is a huge step forward for LGBTQ romance and I am grateful beyond measure to RWA and the Board.

All of you LGBTQ romance writers who wondered and questioned why any LGBTQ rom writer would belong to RWA…what are you waiting for? Here is your engraved invitation. Our voices are heard in RWA regardless of what color we are, where we are from, what faith we practice and who we fall in love with. I urge all LGBTQ romance writers to join RWA, The professional writing organization to belong to in the romance sphere and hey, while you’re at it, why not give the LGBTQ chapter of RWA, Rainbow Romance Writers, a spin? Exciting things are happening inside RWA, RRW and LGBTQ romance. Be a part of it!

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Book Tour Winners & I Haz Woot-Worthy News!

Congrats to the following winners of $10 Amazon gift cards during Foreshock‘s book tour:

3/12 — Joyfully Jay — Jibriel
3/13 — Dawn’s Reading Nook– Islaen
3/14 — Chicks & Dicks — Judi/Loveless3173
3/15 — Long & Short Reviews  — Renee/PaParanormalFan
3/16 — All I Want and More

You’ll notice that the winner for my last tour spot, for comments at All I Want And More, isn’t listed. That’s because no one’s been picked yet — there’s still time to enter! The winner will be drawn on Monday so stop by, tell me what you would do for The One, and be entered into a drawing for the last $10 Amazon gift card. :-)

Foreshock has also hit the Amazon Kindle Gay & Lesbian Top 100 and has received it’s first review, recommended by Jessewave:

I couldn’t help falling for Kyle in this very short story and sympathized with his desire to prove his masculinity in the only way he knew how…

If you’ve picked up a copy of Foreshock, thank you for helping with the donation to the Trevor Project and I hope you had as much fun with Eric and Kyle as I did writing their story.

WOOT!

 

I, Omega and Collared have both been nominated for Best of 2011 books at The Romance Reviews! IO has been nominated for Best GLBT Paranormal and Collared has been nominated for Best GLBT Romantic Science Fiction/Futuristic, both of which is really effin cool. If you’ve a mind to vote, click on the 2011 Nominee image above. Haven’t picked up your copy of I, Omega or Collared yet? Oh, dudes, you’re in luck! Click on the titles to be taken to each book’s page on ARe where for St. Patrick’s Day, one day only, all titles are available with a 50% ARe ebook buck rebate for eligible books purchased via cc or Paypal.

Finally, In the Red has also been reviewed at TRR:

Ms. Gregg writes the best messed up characters that I love and want so desperately to save.

Heh. But also WOO HOO! :-D

So…Congrats to all my book tour winners! Go to the last stop on the book tour (linked above) to comment for a shot at the last $10 Amazon gift card by Monday. If you feel like it, vote for I, Omega and Collared at TRR and while you’re there, hang around TRR’s website for massive fun and great prizes during TRR’s anniversary party (click image below!)…

…and then dash to ARe to save pots of money on TRR’s Best of 2011 nominees and other great titles today (March 17th) only.

Happy St. Patrick’s Day, compadres!

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Winners — YAY!

A quick WOOT goes to Melanie, who won the random drawing for the free copy of Foreshock, and also to Ella for winning a $10 Amazon gift card as the prize for my random newsletter subscriber drawing.

:D :D :D WAHOO!!! :D :D :D

Want your shot at a $10 Amazon gift card too? Well, stop by my blog tour, dudes. I’m giving away a $10 Amazon gift card every day:

3/12 — Joyfully Jay — http://joyfullyjay.blogspot.com/
3/13 — Dawn’s Reading Nook — http://dawnsreadingnook.blogspot.com/
3/14 — Chicks & Dicks — http://chicksndicks.blogspot.com/
3/15 — Long & Short Reviews — http://www.longandshortreviews.com/LASR/index.htm
3/16 — All I Want and More — http://alliwantandmore.blogspot.com/

Stop by to hear about the Trevor Project, Foreshock – and leave a comment for your chance to win!

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Foreshock Giveaway!

Sometimes the earth really does move.

Heya, dudes! Just a few more days and the wicked awesomeness that is Kyle & Eric will be available when Foreshock rolls out at Riptide on the 12th. Just a head’s up that I’ll be blog-touring it up starting on Monday the 12th, clear through the 16th, and giving away a $10 Amazon gift card at each and every stop on the tour. That’s FIVE gift cards that’ll be up for grabs, compadres. $50. Fifty bucks sounds pretty effin good to me, LOL. If you want your shot to grab for the goodies, I’ll be at:

3/12 — Joyfully Jay — http://joyfullyjay.blogspot.com/
3/13 — Dawn’s Reading Nook — http://dawnsreadingnook.blogspot.com/
3/14 — Chicks & Dicks — http://chicksndicks.blogspot.com/
3/15 — Long & Short Reviews — http://www.longandshortreviews.com/LASR/index.htm
3/16 — All I Want and More — http://alliwantandmore.blogspot.com/

So stop by next week and see if you win!

Actually…If you haven’t signed up for my newsletter? You might want to do that. Soon. A new release means a newsletter and a newsletter means a random prize drawing among subscribers. So if you want a chance at a Freebie of Awesomeness sign up now.

But the fun hasn’t ended yet. How’d you like a freebie of Foreshock? I’m hungry so comment below with your favorite snack of choice. No diets allowed. Be decadent. Be mean. But comment by 10:00 a.m. EST Sunday, March 11th, the day before Foreshock releases. I’ll choose someone at random to win the free copy of Foreshock then. YAY!

What’s your fave snack? I am ready. Do your worst. Nom nom nom.

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A Valentine’s Treat — Sneak Peek at Plunder

Happy Valentine’s, everybody! A couple of treats for ya…

First off, Riptide slashed prices site-wide by 25% for one day only! Which means you can pre-order Foreshock for 74 cents (dood) and get Collared for $3.74. Awesome. While the sale’s still rolling, you should check out Anne Tenino’s Frat Boy & Toppy while it’s on sale too, by the way. Sounds like hella fun, no?

Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaand…

A second Valentine’s MWAH from yours truly — How about a look at the Spoils of War sequel, Plunder? Bear in mind that this is wholly unedited. Here, Micah has settled on a small country estate among the Alekites, where his tutor (Master Rigel) tries to separate him from Eli once the two greet Micah’s father and king.

Unwise. Most unwise.

* * *

I shook my head, fingers clenching and unclenching at my sides when the king’s soldiers marched to my beautiful Eli. While the buzzing in my ears built to crescendo, they yanked me from his embrace and pulled at Eli’s arms, pinioning them at the base of his spine –

No.

No!

I leapt toward him, heart shrieking in my chest. They couldn’t take my Eli. They couldn’t — He was mine! But I was small. Weak. They could do what they wanted, whatever the daemon who was my father commanded them. They gently, though firmly, shoved me aside. Away from them. Away from my master. My beloved. My…world.

I could not lose him. Dead was better.

Anything was better than losing my Eli.

So I stooped to a crouch and launched myself at the men surrounding my master. I swung my body high on the nearest soldier’s back. I squeezed my thighs to hold me fast, snaking my arms around his thick neck –

The guard wrapped an enormous paw over my shoulder and flung me across the reception hall.

My head spun dizzily as I sailed through the air. I reached out, blindly groping for something — anything — to hang onto…And lost my breath in a whoosh when my hip smacked into the floor. My head cracked against cold marble.

My vision darkened.

Pain screamed out.

Or was the screaming me?

“Don’t hurt him! Micah…My lord, please, tell them not to hurt — ”

Stunned, senseless, my body skidded across the wide reception room. I grunted in pain as my side slammed into a tall column, bringing me to a jolting stop.

“You see how vicious he is,” Master Rigel said.

I scrabbled to my hands and knees. The sneering satisfaction in the cursed tutor’s voice sliced like a whip through my muzzy head. I swung my gaze in the direction of that smug voice, though my vision had blurred and I could see naught but vague splashes of color that were the king’s soldiers. I struggled to focus anyway, to pinpoint the whoreson who was first my tormentor and now the accuser whose lying tongue slandered me. Fury at his deceit swamped me. My bleary eyes found the deep dark blue that was Master Rigel’s robes in the teeming mass of men and monarchs.

Rigel would rob my Eli from me.

And to my mind, his treachery made his life forfeit.

Hate flooded me, devastated and consumed me. My lust for Rigel’s end obliterated everything else. My senses expanded. No, they exploded. That the blow to my head had knocked my vision awry didn’t matter, for I did not need to see anymore. Tingly strength danced at my fingertips, vibrated my chest, stirred the hairs on my spindly arms. My blood drummed in my ears, drowning out my ragged pants. The screeching fear in my heart and the aches of my body crumpled at the sly cunning that overshadowed me.

I stared, feeling rather than seeing Master Rigel in the throng of men, the duplicitous and hurtful men who would take my Eli from me, and in an instant, no longer than a stuttered heartbeat, the hate inside me judged and condemned them all. The elegantly appointed receiving room crackled with sudden menace. Because this hurt, among all others, could not be born.

None would take my master from me and live.

“Micah, no!”

Not even my master’s cry could divert the murderous, reckless loathing within me. It focused like a fireball, invading my breath and every muscle. It burned. Gods, how my hatred burned, but I could not fight the surge. Like a brilliant starburst, it consumed everything inside me, using me up, depleting all that I was. My foggy vision faded to black. My boneless arms shook, the pain more than I could stand. I turned my head to helplessly wretch, but emptying my stomach did not rid me of my venom. Instead, the seductive, ruinous rage inside me snapped, ripping free of my body –

The ground beneath me lurched.

I jerked forward. The arms and legs bracing me collapsed, smashing my chin into the marble floor. The coppery salt of blood filled my mouth as the gathered soldiers gave a unified shout of surprise followed by the jumbling cacophony of them knocking against one another and dropping to the ground as well. They fell, as I had, with each of the blows Master Rigel had delivered, with the careless shove that had flung me across the room.

The marble under my planted face split in a single, delicate thread.

Still the ground shook, the fury and pain within me so terrible it spilled over in ever-increasing jolts.

“Do you long to die?” Eli shouted above the din. “Release me!”

Urns toppled. Shattering ceramic jingled in my ears, soon joined by the rush of loose stones that had been contained in the urns, the discordant clatter of them spilling across the fractured floor. Something heavy — though I brushed my hair from my eyes, I could not see — thundered to the ground, cutting off a reedy scream. Timbers in the ceiling above cracked ominously.

Oh gods.

The chaos surrounded me, within and without now. I knew what this was: earthquake. Herra had suffered them too. My whole world did and ever had, but never so intense and never so full of malice, violence and…

Fear supplanted my hate. As the noise and tumult of the quake rattled my bones, my terror flashed so bright.

I, who had uttered nary a word nor a sound since arriving at my new prison, screamed. “E-i!”

But then, he was there. My master. My lover and savior. Eli scrambled across the bucking floor and scooped me against him, curling his body protectively over mine. My fingers clawed into his tunic. I burrowed into the safety of his embrace, my fear so huge I wondered that I could survive it at all. Forget the crack of shattering stone, fragments and splinters of wood raining down on us. Forget the roar of the roof collapsing nearby, the cloud of dust that clogged my throat or the shower of debris that pelted my legs. As horrible as the endless quake was, the destruction paled against the fright that ate away at me like the ravenous beasts with which Xerxes has oft taunted me.

“I’m here. Right here. No one will take me from you,” Eli crooned in my ear, voice pitched to a comforting rumble over the devastation surrounding us. He held me close, so close I felt the gallop of his heartbeat through the layers of our clothes. His fingers threaded in my hair, his hand palming my scalp to urge me closer still. “Hush now. You’re safe, completely safe…”

On it went, his soothing voice. The scent of my master overwhelmed the cloying dust in my nostrils and the belly-twisting smell of freshly spilled blood. He pushed my nose into his neck — that special spot of his body I had made my home. The magic of his low murmur offered me sanctuary. Bewildered and scared, I could not resist him.

The jarring tremors gradually eased.

If only my body’s shake would abate so readily.

“That’s right. No one is hurting you,” Eli said, one wide palm brushing a clatter of pebbles from my back. “It’s over. Just hold onto me.”

I clung to him as fiercely as ever, but in spite of his whispered promises, my eyes squeezed shut, my muscles bunching to stone beneath his stroking caress.

Because I knew.

I would be punished.

I must be punished — flogged, beaten, passed among the men. I’d earned it, every lash. Herra had declared it and the Alekites must grasp that now too.

I could never be strong. Never be whole.

Clinging to my master, I sobbed into his neck, for they must surely see — ignorant slut and slave though I was — bad things happened when I wasn’t kept weak, when I wasn’t starved and abused. Evil happened.

And I was its root

* * *

Happy Valentine’s Day!

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I lied — Foreshock coming in March at Riptide

Okay, you know how I said you wouldn’t get anything new from me for a while? I lied.

Sometimes the earth really does move.

Kyle Armentrout is every gay man’s fantasy in a toolbelt, but he can’t even change a light bulb without injuring himself. Twice divorced and not long from the closet, he’s found his way into a fulfilling relationship at last, but he can’t quite escape the sense that he’s left his manhood behind in the process.

When Kyle’s latest DIY project slides into predictable disaster, his lover, Eric Mulholland, wants him to retire his Allen wrench and accept that he isn’t less of a man for loving Eric.

Then the fault lines of their relationship meet the fault lines of the 2011 Northeast earthquake, and the two lovers learn not just to stay on their feet when the ground shakes, but to actually treasure the tremble.

All author royalties on sales of this title are being donated to the Trevor Project. Please consider ordering directly through our website to maximize Kari’s donation.

Foreshocked is a fun, smexy short story inspired by the northeast quake last summer. You can pre-order it now by clicking on the cover and if you do? .49 of the price goes to the Trevor Project. And in a few weeks time, you get the snarky hotness that is Kyle and Eric. Bursting with YAY, no? ;-)

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